The final day of our little adventure. Really yesterday was supposed to be the final day, but that changed on Sunday and we all agreed to 'play it by ear.' This morning I thought I was awake until a knocking sound on the door woke me up for real. Pastor got to see me not bright and smiley, but I still managed to say good morning after I said, "no thanks" when he told me it was time for us girls to wake up. To this I responded, 'yes Dad' and promptly crawled back in bed. Dee-Dee joined me not long after, but we still managed to leave around 8ish. Some of us got breakfast at the main house before we went to their family's home again. Again breakfast consisted of beer, sticky rice, BBQ pork, grilled fish, some steamed veggies, and some spicy dips. While we waited for breakfast, Dee-Dee and I hung out in the hammock to read a book and we were joined by his 2 year old cousin Bai Fern. She smiles and dances when prompted and is quite the star of the show. After breakfast it was off to see their rubber farm. Jiit and I took the bike. While she drove, I took pictures of us. Then she let me drive. My favorite instruction was that she forbid me to pull the accelerator hard. I got that down and we made it safely to the farm even though I didn't know how to lower gears. Every day they have people come and cut the rubber trees and then the sap flows into little cups which are collected and rolled into sheets of rubber and sent from there to be processed. It was a pretty cool thing to learn about. Back at the house it was time to say goodbye! I hugged Jiit and was happy I get to see her next year, aka next week! We loaded up this time in different places as Jiit didn't come back to BKK with us and P Thongtip wanted to sit in the back seat with Dee-Dee and I. I got a great chance to get to know her better and practice my Thai. Dee-Dee and I also got to be friends too. He bought a toy at Big C that we put together. Back in Sikui, we stopped at one of Pastor and Thongtip's neighbor's house and then climbed up the mountain (in their truck) to where they own a farm with rubber trees. The trees are really young, so we got to see how they work to prune them, to grow straight and tall. We also dug up a tapioca root to see what it looks like. I got a chance to get my hands dirty digging in the dirt and it was great! Our trip was quickly coming to an end though. We picked up Dee-Dee, said goodbye to the neighbors and got on the road to BKK after getting my cellphone. Traffic was incredibly busy on the road as everyone is headed home to Isan for New Year's. While we were in traffic, a guy bumped us from behind. Pastor got out to check, but there was no damage, so everyone continued on. Now it's back in BKK and back to work, for me at least. This was really a wonderful break! I am so glad I had a chance to travel with all these people. It was so relaxing and I'm glad I had a chance to just be a tag along like one of the kids of the family! We joked in Big C that they could tell people I was adopted and that Robin was Thongtip's sister!
30 December, 2009
Road Trip to Isan Day 3
It's 5 o'clock somewhere. That's what Robin and I concluded when we got to the golf course at 9:30am with Dee-Dee, P Thongtip, Jiit and Jiit's Dad and found Pastor and their other relatives pouring the beer and preparing our breakfast spread. My first reaction to anything different is to say, "awesome" and so after looking dumbfounded for a few seconds I grabbed my glass and said "cheers!" Somehow I knew that this day would indeed be awesome!
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Road Trip to Isan Day 2
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Road Trip to Isan Day 1
Unlike, most road trips where people get up at an ungodly early hour to drive for hours on end, this trip starts in the late afternoon. First we went to church. There weren't very many people there because, it's between 2 holidays and most people travel home to the countryside. Before church started I got to hold baby Grace who was dressed in an adorable ladybug outfit! She is so cute! After church Robin and I got lunch and picked out a new camera for Robin. It was really cool and does all sorts of neat things. It was perfect just before a road trip. We met our traveling companions at 2 and after a quick prayer we headed for our first destination- Sikiu which is in Isan or Northeast Thailand. In front- our driver Pastor Sompong and his wife P Thongtip who was holding their grandson Dee-Dee.
In back- the ladies, Robin, Jiit, and myself. Dee-Dee and I became friends as we walked around Tesco-Lotus. We stopped there for food and other things to bring to the Christmas party. Around 6pm we arrived in the village as they were getting things together. This is the same house church I went to when I first arrived in Thailand. This experience however, was MUCH different!
Where do I start. Ok, so at first just some family members and a few kids were there, so we hung out talked with Pastor Chan and his wife and helped them get ready as well as spent a bit of time taking pictures with my new fried Jiit. They had a big BBQ planned for the community complete with music, a gift exchange and a Christmas message from Pastor Sompong. The BBQ was delicious. I sat down with some ladies and introduced myself. Later on I found out I was sitting with the village leader's wife and we were soon joined by him also.
It was just a blur of activity after that. People were coming and going, eating food, kids were playing, people were singing and then we were joined by a group of rowdy guys. The first thing the village leader tells me is that they are drunk! LOL.
Which made the rest of the evening quite interesting, especially with foreigners there. They all hung out in a group shooting glances at me. Some where dancing to the music and every time a song finished they would present the singer with a piece of food. Quite funny to watch. They eventually got brave and one guy brought me sticky rice! Pastor Sompong gave a Christmas message and then invited Robin and I to sing Christmas songs. That was great. We both really enjoyed it and we got an applause afterwards. I was presented with more sticky rice and what I thought was water. After tasting the water, I thought it tasted strange, so Pastor Sompong and Robin tested it and confirmed my suspicions that it was spiked!!!! Ridiculous!! I joked with Pastor that he needed to be my bodyguard, and a poor one he turned out to be. Eventually a group of ladies got up to dance and I was pulled into dance with them and Robin
and I was presented with flowers from one of the guys. Before we left the guys wanted my picture and my phone number and they presented me with more flowers. Instead of rescuing me Pastor and Robin helped the situation and made sure I posed for lots of pictures!
Oh my! It was so much fun though. I got to hang out with a bunch of kids who took the camera to take pictures of the surroundings,
I got to chat with the village leader's wife who made sure to tell everyone that I spoke Thai which encouraged the boys, and I had an all around good time!
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26 December, 2009
Christmas Eve and Day
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19 December, 2009
Christmas Day
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17 December, 2009
Christmas Shopping?
This is not what you might think. There were no malls, crowds, or sold out action figures in this story. No, today Dang, La, Khun Oi and I drove to the Cambodia Market near the Thai-Cambodia border and our purpose was to buy 150 winter coats for people living in Northern Thailand. Even though we don't have snow or negative degrees like North America, it still gets pretty cold for hill tribe people living in the mountains and in houses made out of bamboo, on stilts, with no indoor heating. I wasn't sure what to expect, but I was surprised when we showed up in this market the size of a small town and arrived at a store that sold coats by the mountain! Literally, the place we went to had a pile of coats as big as a huge haystack on which Dang and I climbed looking for nice coats to buy for the children. Here's me sitting on top of one pile checking out a coat.
Even though it was hot in there, we still had lots of fun and boat over 150 second-hand coats for adults and children for only about $130ish. One pack of clothes we shipped straight from the market.
The rest we will deliver in January when we go to Pakham Mai for children's day celebration.
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15 December, 2009
Thai's Say The Darndest Things ;)
This morning La and I are walking to work, when our neighbor putters by on his little 3-wheel motorbike. He says to La, "dek(child) dun(walk) gahp(with) phoo-yai(adult). Which basically meant that he called her short because it looked like she was a child walking next to me since I'm like 9 inches taller than her. She laughed at him and then said to me, "he is always joking." It made me laugh too. Later on I had one of those moments where I reflected how different my culture is from the Thai culture and how I have grown accustomed to things that would raise eyebrows at home.
This is just one example, but in general it is not impolite to talk about a person's appearance to their face here. Almost all people use a nickname that usually reflects personality or appearance. These nicknames include pig, fatty, chicken, good heart, little, egg, cat, pinkie, red, etc. Talking about a person's weight, fat, height, age, ethnicity, or skin color can be inserted into a conversation with as much ease as a comment on the weather. When I first came here, I was in a bit of shock the first several times I saw or experienced this, and I wondered how people could be so mean openly ridiculing others. Eventually one of my teachers explained to me that these things aren't factors in determining a person's value or worth in the eyes of Thai like it so often is in western culture, so they can talk about it and it doesn't make a difference. They're going to like you the way you come, so why worry about it.
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11 December, 2009
The Messiah
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07 December, 2009
Visa trip to Vietnam!
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